Susubear Little Inn: One just would not understand, and maybe never will

Seeking My True Self

Saturday, May 06, 2006

One just would not understand, and maybe never will

Let's talk about buying a product. How would a customer be satisfied after buying the product? which is to reduce the cognitive disonance to the minimum level. Customer delivered value = Benefits/cost. It same applies on human, which is how much you pay out, you would not be satisfied unless it had reach the satisfied level. Same goes for relationship, if one party is contibuting more than another, the other one would not be satisfied.

Draw an example, a wife bought the husband a Rolex watch worth few thousand while the husband just gave her chocalates, do you think she'll be happy? Of course not. Now you know why they say diamonds are women best friend ? LOL, the example does not make sense anyway.

Some say, "Even I've sacrifice so much, though I hope for nothing back from you."- How true is this statement, I cannot judge. Some will do without asking any repay while some is the totally opposite.

There are many ways of showing appreciation to another person. To girl, words may not be enough, a mere "Thank you" is just too common out the street. Everyone says thanks u everyday, expect for barbarians. Many would be glad if they receive such long msgs saying "Oh how much I do appreciate for what you've done, you're one that ...". Typically way for friendster kaki would be, DUH writing a testimonial, Lame? Well it's still a way of appreciation. For those who thinks that actions speak louder than words, giving a present would be good, or typically SOME actions that does imply appreciation. Body language plays an important part in our life, you see words through someone's eyes, and also gesture that will clarify things you're trying to say. - This is call non-verbal communication.

"Ring..." end of OTB and Marketing lecturer. I really did learn alot from college, yes especially from my lecturer Ms.Crystal, much real life experience she loves to draw to us during classes and sure it' effective. Look I've remember some... Yeah some things she thought on lecture.

- It's now 2:32AM yet I'm still awake.
- Sometimes I really do think that I'm doing much more than what I would get in return, which is scolding.
- In the verge of giving up tonight, or when I truly finds the one who understands, appreciate, cherish.
- It's just too much sometimes, my patients has limits, I'm not the same one again I stand for myself
- It's not my loss if I choose to leave, as it's your loss for lossing one good one, and will never find one again.

If I fail one more time in my relationship, everyone won't get to see the same me again. After one that's hurt too much, I guess it's time to change and play around.After being faithful does not work, what's the whole point of being one then?

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